My name is Tony Tran, a Vietnamese American man who lives in the USA for a long time. I like to tell you my personal experience of getting married with a Vietnamese wife in Vietnam I found at a dating site (Tim Ban Online). About 12 years ago. I tried to find a Vietnamese girl at an online dating service. I found the best girl I have ever seen before. Her name is Huong. When I decided to go there to marry her, my friends said: “Come on, Tony, don’t do that, man, she will leave you for someone else when she gets here”. They said that there are many Vietnamese brides who left their husbands after they came to the West for a few months or years. I didn’t personally believe that. I thought most of such broken relationships that my friends mentioned are like older men younger women, dishonest in communication, lying, etc.
Disregard with what my friends said, I went to Vietnam and visited her home. She lived at Saigon city and her family was nice and friendly. She was attending college by that time and she was tutoring some kids to pay for her education. I liked her personality, really do. She was an excellent housekeeper and great cooker. She handled most of the housework perfectly. When I met her in Saigon, we went out, I told her about me. I never lie to her of anything. I told her that I was attending college, worked partner, etc. She told me the same thing about herself.
Huong was a beautiful, appealing, and lovely girl. She was 5’6 tall and 98 lbs by that time. She was 21 years old and younger than me for 8 years old. By looking at her the first time, I felt in love with her. The way she talked and smiled make me excited. Especially, her eyes were lovely that I could die in them all the time. After staying there for one week, I proposed to her and we got married 10 days after that. To tell you the truth, I didn’t know if I made a right decision by that time or not. However, I thought about my little time on this trip, I had no choice but to get married before I got back to USA. I trusted her completely but still remembered what my friends said about getting married with someone whom you met at Vietnamese dating site (Tim Ban Bon Phuong). Anyway, we got married a week before I returned to America.
After I graduated and got a job and Huong came to USA. We were again happy to meet each other. I rented an apartment and we lived happily together. She attended college and graduated after 5 years. It was rough during her first few months here because I had to teach her everything. Now, she has a professional career and works in an IT department. We had two children now. I invited my friends over to enjoy my second kid’s birthday party. You know what? They admitted to me that they were wrong for the concept about dating or marrying with someone you met online.
That is my personal experience about marrying with my wife whom I met online. Every man is different. I like to get married with a girl who is not only beautiful from her body and face but also beautiful in her characteristics. So, my road to marriage was a little rough but I was satisfied with what I did. My wife is beautiful from her appearance and her traits too. It is worth it to bring her from Viet Nam to USA.
Vietnam Single dating sites (tim ban bon phuong) are the best way to meet single women and men in Viet Nam or in the West. There are thousands of Vietnamese singles who have met their second half online. Vietnamese dating service is the solution. If you are not yet married and wish to meet a life mate online, then joining a Vietnam single dating site today is a good idea. Online Vietnamese dating gives you the possible opportunity to travel to different cities, states, and countries as well. Life is short, try to meet someone who is your perfect match. Love will make the long distance gets close. Remember, your life mate is the most important factor that determine whether you are successful in this world or not. So, choosing a life partner with care is recommended.
From my personal experience, I can summarize what I think about getting married with someone in Vietnam:
- Find a girl who is between 5 and 10 years younger, but not too young,
- Make sure you and her has something in common,
- Similar in appearance, if you are 5’5, then don’t get married with a girl who is 5’6,
- Tell the truth about yourself, don’t lie. If you are currently a waiter, then don’t tell her that you are an owner.